When we focus only on matching the qualities (guna) in the horoscope for marriage, we might overlook the problems (dosha) in the chart. Matching qualities alone are not enough if the horoscope has severe marriage-related issues.
Even if most qualities match, a marriage can end in a bad
relationship or separation. Sometimes, a successful marriage can be a matter of
chance if both husband and wife have good horoscopes without issues related to
marriage.
Traditionally, horoscope
matching is done based on the placement of the Moon's Nakshatra (birth
star) first, and other criteria are checked later.
To better understand, we need to analyze the charts
holistically at five levels: physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and
intellectual.
Matching only based on the Moon's placement might lead to
divorces because each horoscope
has its desires and necessities. We must check if they synchronize and are
compatible and consider their patience and compromise levels, which are crucial
for a successful modern family lifestyle.
What is Gun Milan in Kundli matching for marriage?
Gun Milan, also known as Gunas or Ashtakoot Milan, is a
traditional method of Kundli matching used in
Vedic astrology for assessing the compatibility of two individuals for
marriage. In Gun
Milan, the birth charts (Kundlis) of the prospective bride and groom
are compared based on eight different parameters, known as "Kootas"
or "Gunas." Each parameter is assigned a certain number of points,
and the total points obtained from all eight Kootas determine the overall
compatibility between the couple.
The eight Kootas and their assigned points are as
follows:
Varna (1 point): This Koota measures the spiritual
development and compatibility of the couple.
Vashya (2 points): It indicates the dominance and control
one partner may have over the other.
Tara (3 points): This Koota assesses the health and
well-being of the couple after marriage.
Yoni (4 points): It indicates the sexual compatibility
and harmony between the couple.
Graha Maitri (5 points): This Koota measures the
intellectual and emotional compatibility between the partners.
Gana (6 points): It represents the temperament and nature
of the couple.
Bhakoot (7 points): This Koota measures the couple's
emotional and family life compatibility.
Nadi (8 points): It indicates the
presence of genetic or health-related issues between the couple.
The total points obtained from all eight Kootas can range
from 0 to 36. Higher the total points, the better the compatibility.
Traditionally, a score of 18 points or above is considered acceptable for
marriage. However, it's important to note that Gun Milan is just one of the
factors considered in Kundli matching. Other factors like Mangal
Dosha (Mars affliction), planetary positions in the 7th house, and
overall compatibility between the couple should also be analyzed to assess
marriage compatibility comprehensively.
